I'm so delighted to have Susan Weidener as a guest on Choices. Her words about writing - Write What Is Relevant to You - are so helpful and true. Please read about the book she is working on now, which she calls true-life fiction, and the ways she advices her group, the Women's Writing Circle, how to hone in their writing.I certainly can attest to Susan's excellent writing. I read her memoir, Morning at Wellington Square, in about two days. I couldn't put it down. Please click here to read my review.
Please welcome Susan Weidener.
Write What Is Relevant to You
by Susan Weidener
Although I had written two memoirs and contributed to an
anthology of short stories in the last three years, another project had long
simmered in the back of my mind. I can’t call it memoir and I can’t call
it fiction. So, maybe, “true life fiction”
works.
The story comes from my imagination, but the male character’s
story is based on excerpts from a memoir written by my late husband, John
Cavalieri. In
the last two years of his life, John, worked tirelessly on his story. He relived his days as a cadet at the United
States Military Academy and explored the fallout from his curtailed Army career,
not only how it impacted him as a man, a husband and a father but how the diagnosis
of ulcerative colitis right before graduation from West Point would eventually
lead to colorectal cancer. John’s writing was riveting, honest and emotional. Unfortunately, his manuscript was
rejected by several publishers, and sat gathering dust in a bedroom closet. He
died in 1994, a month after his 47th birthday.
Over the years, I kept going back to his book. Reading
an excerpt here and there, learning more about the man I loved. I even wrote
about his excitement in writing the story of his life in my memoir, Morning
at Wellington Square, as it seemed a testament to the power of memoir as John made sense of
his life through writing. I kept remembering how he wished he
could have seen it published. It left me wondering what I could do to
make that happen for him.
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Jay, the male character in my book, is much like John.
A man of ideals, he believes in honor.
He doesn’t fit in either in the Army or corporate America. Searching for
answers following a life-threatening illness, Jay decides he needs to write his
story before it is too late.
Ava, an author and an editor, is divorced with a son away at
college. At 42, her life has approached contented complacency, if
lacking in passion; much of her youthful illusions have fallen away. When Jay
approaches Ava to edit his manuscript, the slow “dance” begins . . . together
they are caught up in something larger than themselves. Yet, Jay knows he
may have little time left.
“He could still walk away.
Spare her pain. Close up the
bungalow he had rented near a small lake where time seemed measured in slow
ripples of water rolling up against the shore toward wooded paths of elderberry
and wild hydrangea. Hop into his black sports car, which he had lovingly kept
running with over 120,000 miles; and start driving again back out West. Finish
writing his story about honor, duty, and country; all those words that seemed
so worn and hackneyed now in a world slowly decaying and crumbling amidst the
mindless garble and endless loops of talk shows, cable news, Internet chatter. Yet, there was something about her, like a
melody he once heard playing a long time ago . . . drawing him to her. Making him believe again.”
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As the
creator of the Women’s Writing Circle, I advise women to hone in on what they
are writing. Many come to the Circle with the
seed or idea for a memoir or a novel, but figuring out what they want to say is the
challenge.
A
writer's mantra should be this: “What is my story about?” Keep
saying it, keep coming back to it. Write two or three sentences encapsulating
the theme of your story; it doesn’t have to be long, in fact, the shorter, and
more concise the better. That way a path
is forged to avoid “side trips” that bog down the rhythm of an unfolding story.
Other advice
to writers: Write what is relevant to you. Draw from your own life experience and make sense of
something – and then tell it in a way that is larger than you and
engages the reader.
For
me, the answer to life’s often meaningless existence . . . “What’s it all about?” is found in true
love; a love between two souls, a love that “surpasses analysis . . . that is
meant to be,” as I write in this new book. This is the theme I have also
explored in both my memoirs. I am forever and always will be a romantic
at heart.
Ways to hone your writing:
· Keep it simple and straightforward.
· Find perspective from your characters and your story.
· Tell the story as true as you can.
· Keep it real. No artifice. Readers know when a writer is trying to pull
one over on them.
Susan's Bio
An author,
editor and former journalist with The
Philadelphia Inquirer, Susan leads writing workshops and started the
Women's Writing Circle, www.susanweidener.com
a support and critique group for writers in suburban Philadelphia. Susan is the
author of two memoirs, Again in aHeartbeat, which is about being widowed at a young age, and its sequel, Morning at Wellington Square, a woman's
search for passion and renewal in middle age. Susan is interested in how women
can find their voice through writing and storytelling. Her most recent work appears in an anthology
of stories about women's changing and challenging roles in society called Slants of Light. Susan lives in Chester Springs, Pennsylvania. 
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